The conversations we have about sex as we grow up rarely include a discussion of pleasure. To make matters worse, many of us have been raised with unhealthy attitudes about sex and body image. But sex positivity is for every person and every body type. Fat, plus-size, curvy, chubby — however you choose to refer to your bigger body type, remember that these are not bad words.
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If we differ from this stereotype at all — as many of us do — we can end up feeling undesirable, unacknowledged, and unworthy of sex. The only difference for plus-size folk is you might have to make some adjustments … you might have to move your fat. I know the idea of this can make some people shudder, but think of it this way, moving your fat is like pulling your hair back to make a ponytail or adjusting your junk in your pants. To get clearer on what that means and entails check out this cool graphic on consent brought to you by Planned Parenthood. Lube is an absolute necessity for anal sex, and with penetrative sex, lube can actually make sex easier and more enjoyable as well as help prevent possible micro-tears in the vagina and anus caused by a lot of friction. For a person of size, pillows or even better, something sturdier like the Liberator Wedge , which is made out of industrial foam are your best friends. Masturbation gets the sexual juices flowing, helps you get to know your body better and helps you discover how different parts of your body respond to touch.
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To talk about a topic that will most likely make your mom and dad uncomfortable. Specifically, plus size sex positions. As someone who is plus size, I notice that it is not very often, hardly ever really, that a plus size woman is portrayed having sex. But in order to have these great experiences we do need to realize, as plus size women, that not every position is going to work.