Sign in. By Chin Lu. Is your residential building incredibly close to the ones next to it? The answer to both questions is yes because you live in San Francisco. And because you live in San Francisco, you most likely ha v e had the experience of being awakened by the sounds of your neighbors getting it on in the wee hours of the morning.
I Hear My Neighbor Having Sex, and It Grosses Me Out
My Neighbors Have Really Loud Sex, And I'm Angry About It – Bwog
Your feelings are understandable, and you also have a well-balanced view regarding the moral rights of yourself and others. But this situation has been in place for a long time and it is not going to change. At times, when you feel lonely or frustrated, you will be even more upset than usual. I would not be surprised if this has affected your own sexuality. The erotic energy of others can trigger a number of reactions: disgust, embarrassment, enjoyment, even arousal. First, speak to your neighbours in person. They should certainly respect your feelings of violation, so gently ask them to pipe it down.
My neighbours’ loud sex is making me feel violated
My upstairs neighbor's bedroom is directly above mine, and I hear him having sex all the time. I'm no prude, but he's really, really loud and it kinda grosses me out. What do I do? The first apartment I lived in was a teensy little studio, and my bedroom was right next to my neighbor's. The only thing separating our beds was a paper-thin wall.
Not a subtle scuffle of the sheets or a quiet rattle of a headboard. Explicit, loud moans of a woman having sex right by my ear. I pressed my ear to the wall.