Right there. Ah, ahh, yesssss. So if you don't understand, good news: We're here to help you dissect and interpret every kind of moan, plus give you a little refresher on pretty much everything and anything you ever wanted to know about sex noises. Whether you're a natural-born moaner who worries that maybe you're a little too loud in bed , or you're a more reserved lover who could've sworn people only made sounds in porn, we have a sexpert answer every single one of your moaning-related questions below. Don't worry, it's totes norms.
The Pleasure-Boosting Case for Being Loud and Proud During Sex
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This has always been a huge insecurity of mine: moaning and noises during sex. The only sound I make is if my breathing picks up naturally. I never moan during sex and try my hardest to let out a noise when I orgasm, but it just feels so forced and fake to me. While it might not feel natural to you, making noise during sex can actually be super beneficial to your overall sexual experience.
What Your Sex Noises Really Mean
I was sure that moany sex meant better sex; to me, the women who used those sounds while they humped were the poster children of the sexually free. I suspected that they were having the coitus of champions, which meant, of course, that there was something I was missing out on. As the years went on, I had other boyfriends, but my decibel level remained disappointingly similar. By the time I was with Dave, my sonic landscape was still most closely matched with a library.
When it comes to sex noises , everyone has a different style. Considerate whispering because you have roommates. Rhythmic grunts. Suuuuuper-low moans.